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LEGO House

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"I'm out of sight, I'm out of mind I'll do it all for you in time And out of all these things I've done I think I love you better now" And so it ended. 9 months and 4 days after a hesitant meeting blossomed into love, the world stopped turning and we fell off. It hurt like hell when it happened. And then it continued hurting like hell over the next few days. Weeks. Months perhaps? The decision was mutual, and we made peace with the idea, but that doesn't take the hurt away. If any, all it did was make it worse. Because the heart wants what it wants, and it doesn't realise that love cannot solve everything. In our case, it felt like everything. There were plenty of fights, tantrums, and arguments; neither party quite willing to back down. We were both right, and we were both wrong. And like all wars, there are no winners, only losers. So how did what felt like the greatest love story ever told come to such an abrupt and pa...
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Musings of bear and cub

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Welcome! To be honest we kinda set up the blog earlier this year and then proceeded to forget all about it, what with the many stresses of life. This was initially meant to be a photo blog ala Tumblr (ie. the risque side of it), but somehow that never came to fruition. I have no idea where things will go from here, so I guess we will let imagination and creativity take the lead. First things first; introductions.  Cub is younger and Malaysian. Bear is older and Kiwi. Typical intergenerational couple, with a few kinks thrown in the mix. We met on an app back in 2015, drawn together by a love for Lego and frustration at the country we live in. Throw in a mutual fascination with each other's cultures (and bodies) and it was a match made over clashes, cuddles, and daily Whatsapp messages. Of course, no relationships are easy. Along the way we have discovered more than our fair share of differences, including but not limited to: 1. Cub loves planning, scheduling a...
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